Top 8 Ways Single Women in Portland Can Avoid Being Played

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Too many single women in Portland get used and played by men who are toying with their feelings in order to get what they want.  These men have no intentions of committing or having a real relationship.  Do some women do this?  They can, but it’s more traditional for men to do it.  And that’s what we’re going to focus on today.  If you’re sick and tired of being led on only to have your heart broken in the end, it’s time you sit back and learn how to spot a player early on.

Today, our Portland matchmakers will show you how to spot a player before he takes advantage of you.

  1. He Won’t Take No for an Answer


This guy will never take no for an answer.  If you’re seeing a guy who won’t take no for an answer, then he’s a player.  He treats your answers like they’re a game and accepting them is only optional.  For players, a woman who says no is a challenge, and he will never give up until you give him what he wants.

  1. He Has a Lot of Girlfriends


It really doesn’t matter where you go, he seems to know a few ladies.  But he always tells you they’re just his friends.  Sure, guys are entitled to have female friends, but if you’re getting the impression that the women he runs into are more than friends, listen to your inner voice because it never lies.  A guy with a herd of women instead of a group of guys is probably sleeping with a few of them.  BEWARE!

  1. You Don’t Feel Like You Can Trust Him


Again, if the little voice inside is telling you that you can’t trust him, listen to that voice.  That distrust you feel is one of the major signs of a player that should never be ignored.  If you feel like he’s hiding something from you, then it’s probably because he is.

  1. He’s Never Had a Serious Relationship


A guy in his 30s or 40s who has never had a serious relationship before is questionable.  Either he has commitment issues or he’s a player out there playing the field.

  1. He Refuses to Take Things to the Next Level


A player loves playing with you, but if you think you’re going to take things beyond a booty call, you have another thing coming.  He only wants to have fun in the bedroom and will never get serious with you.

  1. His Friends Are Also Players


As the saying goes: birds of a feather flock together, and that’s absolutely true for a player.  If all his friends are known for being players, then there would be no reason for him not to do the same.

  1. He Only Calls You After 10 pm.


You love that he calls you every night, but you’re starting to realize that he only calls you after he leaves the bar.  If he never takes you on a date or never sees you during the day, then you’re definitely his booty call.

  1. He Has a Reputation for Being a Player


Maybe one of your friends came up to you and told you, but you didn’t want to believe it.  If he has a reputation for being a player, then it’s probably because he is a player.

If you feel like someone is playing you, it’s probably because they are.  Remember, ladies, you should always listen to your inner voice because it’s telling you that something isn’t right.

If you’re one of the many single women in Portland who is tired of meeting players and jerks, contact our Portland matchmakers so we can introduce you to relationship-minded men today.  To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!