Portland Dating Experts Reveal 4 Signs He’s Leaving You Soon
Relationships happen to be one of the most complex things in the world. It’s about constantly learning how to adapt, live, and love your partner, and this can be tricky for some people. When you’re in a relationship with a person for a very long time, you can easily learn to read them like an open book. And while this can be a great thing, when a relationship run its course (for one person), this can be a nightmare.
There are many obvious signs that your boyfriend is about to leave the relationship, one being he just suddenly ghosts you after being together for years. But what are some of the most subtle signs that can fly under the radar that you might not notice? There could be a number of things you might not notice – or that you want to miss – because you don’t want to accept the fact that your relationship is coming to an end.
For women, it’s easier to talk about problems in the relationship. Unfortunately, for men, it’s a little bit more complicated.
Let our Portland matchmakers here at Portland Singles Dating Service show you the top signs your boyfriend is about to leave you. If you notice these behaviors, it’s time you have a talk and figure out what’s going on.
- Everything is More Important Than You
At the beginning of your relationship, you were the most important thing to him. He literally put you up on a pedestal and worshiped you every day. He used to send you “Good morning” text messages, shower you with romantic gestures,, and plan fun dates for the two of you. However, so much has changed these days, and suddenly everything and anything is more important than you. From poker night with friends suddenly being more important than date nights to forgetting to pick up your favorite wine after you asked him several times. You have clearly moved down on his priority list.
- Everything About You Annoys him
Remember during the early stages of your relationship when he couldn’t get enough of the little hum you made after you took a sip of your coffee? Yeah, well, now he’s pointing out how much it annoys him. At first, you think that maybe he is just being moody, but when he starts nitpicking everything he once found enduring about you, he’s most likely grown tired of you and wants to leave. If he’s suddenly pointing out everything you do that annoys him, he might be trying to irritate you so badly that you end up breaking up with him and saving him from having to dump you.
- You’re the Only One Putting Any Effort
At the beginning of your relationship, you would get little text messages all day. They were the romantic type – the “What are you doing? I can’t wait to see you tonight.” The “I miss you” messages after only being apart from each other for 3 hours… The sweet messages. Now you’ve started to notice that those romantic messages are few and far in between. You are the only one who reaches out now. You’re the one that plans date nights because he doesn’t put any effort into the relationship. When a guy stops putting any effort in the relationship, that’s when you know they’re done and over it. If this sounds like your guy, he could be looking for the nearest exit.
- The Bad Days Outweigh the Good Ones
Usually, during the early stages of a relationship, all days are good ones – especially when you spend time together. You appear to be inseparable and since you’re feeling euphoria, you assume that it will feel like this forever. This is the honeymoon stage of your relationship. But now, all those good days are gone, and you can’t even remember your last good day you shared together. When bad days outweigh good one, that’s when you know the relationship has gone south.
So there you have it, the top four warning signs your guy has checked out. If you noticed any of these behaviors from your guy lately, it’s time to sit down and talk it out to figure out what’s going on with him. If your relationship has run its courses, there’s no point in dragging things out.
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